There are Just Some Things Sex Shouldn’t Sell

Outrageous organ donation ad with sexy female

Ah the intricacies of advertising. They really went there, which has me talking about it because it’s so outrageous. I mean how often are people talking about organ donation? They’re not. So maybe this was in fact a clever way of sparking a little controversy to get a rarely spoken about cause its own 15 minutes. For a cause like that, hey, sometimes the ends justify the means. But if you really stop and think about it, you will realize that this is wrong on so many levels. The ends could be reached using a much less sexist message!

However, this isn’t even subtle innuendo like the kind that you now realize was in EVERY movie you saw as a kid when you were too cutely innocent to ever pick up on. NOPE there’s no way around this one and that is simply a lazy ad. Why is the audience straight males? This is downright bizarre…

How sad is is that they had to debase something as optimistic and altruistic as organ donation? This leaves me with such a feeling of disgust.

PETA is on the same train of though as these guys with their campaign for “I’d rather go naked than wear fur.” Sure, I love the cause…but what happened to the campaigns of cute little animals. Why must they exploit the female body for the purposes of getting across a product/message? It is almost as if they think that the fact that they have well-intentioned messages gives them the green light for using a controversial advertisement. And this, my friends, is one of many of the flaws in mass marketing.

Danity Kane PETA I'd Rather Go Naked than Wear Fur campaign

Photos: scrink.com, fabsugar.com

I Was Thinkin’ About Diamonds And The World’s Biggest Necklace

Making a statement looks easy with Alexa's necklace.

Summer is the time to bust out the basics. So how do you stay comfortable in these essentials without losing all style points? The addition of the trendy statement necklace is one easy way. Throw on one of these bad boys for the ultimate statement in minimal effort. They are artsy and unique looking and draw attention to your face. What could be better?

Here is a cute and recession-friendly tip: If you don’t feel like spending cash on a statement necklace, try putting two or three of your necklaces together, uniting them by a quality such as texture, color, or metal.

Bar Rafieli spices up her gray jersey dress with a statement necklace.

Bar Rafieli spices up her gray jersey dress with a statement necklace.

Drew Barrymore adds interest to her band tee with a statement necklace.

Drew Barrymore adds interest to her band tee with a statement necklace.

Ginnifer Goodwin wears a fallish statement necklace.

Ginnifer Goodwin wears a fallish oversized necklace.

Molly Sims goes dark with a splash of edge in the form of a bold necklace.

Molly Sims goes dark with a splash of edge in the form of a bold necklace.

Sophia Bush looks regal in a chignon and big floral necklace.

Sophia Bush looks regal in a chignon and big floral necklace.

Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon bejewels her collarbone with a larger than life necklace.

Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon bejewels her collarbone with a larger than life necklace.

Blake Lively sparkles in a necklace that screa,s to be looked at.

Blake Lively sparkles in a necklace that screams to be looked at.

The Statement necklace on the catwalk

The Statement Necklace on the catwalk

Nicole Richie in her own bohemian House of Harlow statement necklace.

Nicole Richie in her own bohemian House of Harlow statement necklace.

Peace,

Title from “Isis ” by Bob Dylan

Musings On A Cultural Icon

The passing of Michael Jackson saddens me for a reason different than most other people. No, he wasn’t the soundtrack to my childhood. No, I wasn’t alive when learning the “Thriller” dance was the cool thing to do. But, I am bearing witness, like everyone else this week, to the death of one of the last HUGE household names. I can only think of a handful of stars whose entertainment careers have spanned over several generations, propelling them to superstar statuses: Madonna, Cher, Bono, Bruce, etc.

In this day and age, culture is too fragmented to create these larger than life rockstar personas. When we have our own iPods, Twitters, DVRs, and cell phones, it is no longer as united a front in which to create a mass media. You don’t have to pay attention to the same entertainment as everyone else. The whole country doesn’t flock to the theater to see the same movie as much as in the past. I think I actually might prefer those days in some ways. Maybe I don’t want entertainment to individually always cater to my own interests. It isolates everyone into to their own personal bubble. As if we need that in today’s already divided and unsocial world!

Ten minutes after hearing the MJ news, my coworkers and I were carpooling over the Tobin Bridge into Boston. We had “Billie Jean” blaring on the radio and all of the windows down. Three of the tollbooth workers came out of their booths and slow-clapped and smiled as we drove through Fast-Pass style.  I recall a really weird feeling after seeing this occur: a feeling of cultural unity that is RARE in this country. Call me crazy, but Michael is the Elvis of this generation, and it beats me as to who can fill those shoes out of today’s artists.

Peace,

She’s Walking Down The Street Blind To Every Eye She Meets

Bohemian Rachel Bilson

STYLE ICON: RACHEL BILSON

Rachel Bilson is a princess. Worshiped for her sense of style, she has not even done enough in her career to get all the coverage she receives. She is pretty much solely a style icon! Consistently perfect, her ensembles never fail to inspire. Her style is easy to adapt to your own identity since she relies on the manipulation of basics. It is never flashy or too out there, which is saying something due to the fact that she tries some pretty risky trends. She always tones these trends down to a level where they become street-chic appropriate. And she provides us with endless examples! The girl has seemingly taken it upon herself to be the queen of street-style. She is always photographed out and about in her fashionable outfits. Quite frankly, she doesn’t appear to be doing much else than parading around LA looking cute. At least she is doing a good job of that!

where can i find that adorable bolero?
Where can i find that adorable bolero?
Rachel Bilson mixes boho with preppy

Rachel Bilson mixes boho with preppy

Rachel Bilson mixes with angles

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Rachel in tribal, equestrian chic.
Tinkerbell meets Gatsby.
Tinkerbell meets Gatsby.
Hippie cowgirl.

Hippie cowgirl.

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Rachel the goddess.

Rachel Bilson rare picture

Rachel Bilson and Minka Kelly

Rachel Bilson and Minka Kelly

Rachel Bilson mixes metallic into the traditional little black dress

Rachel Bilson mixes metallic into the traditional little black dress

Peace,

Title from “Hello, I Love You” by The Doors

A Movie Script Ending

Here’s a lovely little montage of my favorite movie quotations from some of my favorite films.

Garden State

Zac Braff and Natalie Portman in Garden State

Zach Braff and Natalie Portman in Garden State

“OK, so… so… sometimes I lie. I mean, I’m weird, man. About random stuff too, I don’t even know why I do it. It’s like… it’s like a tick, I mean sometimes I hear myself say something and think, Wow, that wasn’t even remotely true.”

Vicky Cristina Barcelona

Javier Bardem and Scarlett Johansson in Vicky Cristina Barcelona

Javier Bardem and Scarlett Johansson in Vicky Cristina Barcelona

“The trick is to enjoy life, accepting it has no meaning whatsoever.”

Stand By Me

River's potential saddens me to no end.

River's potential saddens me to no end.

“OK. You guys can go round if you want. I’m crossing here. And while you guys are dragging your candy-asses half way across the state and back I’ll be waiting for you on the other side, relaxing with my thoughts.”

Before Sunrise

Julie Delpy and Ethan Hawke in Before Sunrise

Julie Delpy and Ethan Hawke in Before Sunrise

“You know what drives me crazy? It’s all these people talking about how great technology is, and how it saves all this time. But, what good is saved time, if nobody uses it? If it just turns into more busy work. You never hear somebody say, “With the time I’ve saved by using my word processor, I’m gonna go to a Zen monastery and hang out”. I mean, you never hear that.”

Almost Famous

Almost Famous

Almost Famous

“Jim Morrison is a drunken buffoon posing as a poet. Give me the Guess Who. They have the courage to be drunken buffoons, which makes them poetic.”

“The only true currency in this bankrupt world… is what you share with someone else when you’re uncool.”

Dazed and Confused

Dazed and Confused

Dazed and Confused

“Behind every good man there is a woman, and that woman was Martha Washington, man, and everyday George would come home, she would have a big fat bowl waiting for him, man, when he come in the door, man, she was a hip, hip, hip lady, man.”

Sex and the City

Sarah Jessica Parker turns heads in Sex and the City

Sarah Jessica Parker turns heads in Sex and the City

“Forever mine, forever thine, forever ours.” (I fully understand that this line did not originate from the movie.)

Gone With the Wind

Gone with the Wind

Gone with the Wind

“I’m very drunk and I intend on getting still drunker before this evening’s over.”

“I can’t think about that right now. If I do, I’ll go crazy. I’ll think about that tomorrow.”

Milk

Beautiful Candle Light March in Milk

Beautiful Candle Light March in Milk

“If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door.”

Annie Hall

Diane Keaton and Woody Allen in Annie Hall

Diane Keaton and Woody Allen in Annie Hall

“After that it got pretty late, and we both had to go, but it was great seeing Annie again. I… I realized what a terrific person she was, and… and how much fun it was just knowing her; and I… I, I thought of that old joke, y’know, the, this… this guy goes to a psychiatrist and says, “Doc, uh, my brother’s crazy; he thinks he’s a chicken.” And, uh, the doctor says, “Well, why don’t you turn him in?” The guy says, “I would, but I need the eggs.” Well, I guess that’s pretty much now how I feel about relationships; y’know, they’re totally irrational, and crazy, and absurd, and… but, uh, I guess we keep goin’ through it because, uh, most of us… need the eggs.”

Elizabethtown

Orlando Bloom and Kirsten Dunst in Elizabethtown

Orlando Bloom and Kirsten Dunst in Elizabethtown

“Because we have a moment here, let me tell you that I have recently become a secret connoisseur of ‘last looks’. You know the way people look at you when they believe it’s for the last time? I’ve started collecting these looks.”

Into the Wild

Emile Hirsch ponders materialism in Into the Wild

Emile Hirsch ponders materialism in Into the Wild

“Happiness only real when shared.”

“Rather than love, than money, than faith, than fame, than fairness… give me truth.”

Peace,

Title from “A Movie Script Ending” by Death Cab for Cutie